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Postby Fallen One » Thu Mar 15, 2007 12:35 am

I have to agree, please stop with the assumptions.

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Postby KittyCat » Thu Mar 15, 2007 1:28 am

MAN! And please stop posting the band members (current and old) new bands! It's AGAINST the new forum rules!

We still think Enary rocks whatever. So please.
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Postby Fallen One » Thu Mar 15, 2007 1:37 am

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Postby SMF » Thu Mar 15, 2007 3:53 am

I still think it's a bit disrespectful that she didnt say anything to the fans about her depature.
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Postby Fallen One » Thu Mar 15, 2007 11:47 am

Myeah, true, I've been meaning to send her a mail, but I don't think she checks her Lordi e-mail addy anymore to be honest.

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Postby KittyCat » Thu Mar 15, 2007 4:58 pm

I don't know if it will help.
But someone who's great when it comes to the charm and good with words :P, could try and find out if there's another email. And then mail her to tell her that us fans would really love it if she could swing by the board sometime, if she has the time that is...
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Postby Fallen One » Thu Mar 15, 2007 5:26 pm

I've tried looking for one, but couldn't find any.

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Postby KittyCat » Thu Mar 15, 2007 5:28 pm

Aah :( too sad then. Would feel weird to email somekind of.. band email and ask :/
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Postby DeadLady » Thu Mar 15, 2007 5:31 pm

sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, I'm really sorry :oops: :(
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Postby Mena » Fri Mar 16, 2007 4:18 am

Here is little something that the book says about why Enary was kicked out of the band. I have no idea what the admins think of someone translating stuff from the book here, so I'm just gonna try to keep this really short and really simple. :)

Enary was kicked out of the band basically because of her personality. Mr. Lordi says something like this about Enary: She is a paradoxical person. She is one of the sweetest and kindest persons in the world, someone who would never want anything bad to happen to anyone. But there is something (Mr. Lordi can't point out exactly what it is) in her that makes her kinda nerve-wrecking to many people.
Enary's personality caused conflicts, and the problems continued throughout the years, so the members weren't able to work together smoothly.

Then happened the thing that was the last straw, the incident that made the band to decide that Enary had to leave. At one night, when they were on tour, Amen and Enary got into an argument. It started out as nothing personal, just a band related argument that heated up, and ended up Amen saying some things to Enary, and her jumping on Amen and hitting him.

The porn thing that was mentioned earlier, the story behind that goes something like this: When the band was on tour, they had a double-decker bus. And on tour, people like Mr. Lordi and his wife (at that point his wife-to-be :)), were watching upstairs of the bus "Sex and the city" -marathon from DVD. That put Enary in an awkward situation, cause (according to Mr. Lordi) she can't stand any amount of sex and nudity in films, and that serial has a lot of those things. And in downstairs there were drunk men with their pornmovies and greasy guy-talks. So in a situation like that, it was like Enary was left with no place to go, she didn't kinda belong anywhere. That made her to drift away from the band even more.

Enary says in the book, that it was really hard for her to be kicked out of the band, and that she was still, after one year, having bitter feelings towards Mr. Lordi and the other members of the band.
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Postby HalfmetalAlchemist » Fri Mar 16, 2007 4:40 am

:cry: :cry: The end of the fourth paragraph made me want to cry..

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Postby Fallen One » Fri Mar 16, 2007 1:18 pm

Thank you very much for writing that down here.

That sheds some more overall light on what happened before Miss Enary was kicked. Finally someone who managed to write down a bit more then:

"drunk, sex, hit, kick"

And I don't mind this being stated here at all, even though it is translated from the Finnish book. Because we who don't speak Finnish can't even buy the book anyway because we wouldn't understand anything of it. So in that aspect I don't mind it being here.

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Postby Clearance » Fri Mar 16, 2007 2:07 pm

Yes thank you for the translation. I think there´s no need for other rumors here. If they did not mention more than that in the biography (and I have to admit that in my opinion this is really much they said), it is okay. It is more than we could have expected.
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Postby Romana » Fri Mar 16, 2007 3:26 pm

But how could the members be so thoughtless? I mean by not taking it into account that she felt uncomfortable around porn?

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Postby Clearance » Fri Mar 16, 2007 3:47 pm

Hm, I think "Sex and the City" is more a comedy and has not that much to do with "porn". And when I got that right ´not the bandmembers watched that real porn movies but some men of the crew. Okay but that really depends on how "paradoxical" and uncomfortable she felt around these things. But I guess that is just a little excerpt of the problems they had. No one is kicked from a band / or leaves a band just because of that. And Mr.Lordi and the other band members are definitely persons you can talk to and discuss with. But as the biography doesn´t say more about the reasons why Enary has been sacked we simply should leave it at that point and hope that someone will make her drop by here from time to time.
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Postby Mena » Fri Mar 16, 2007 6:23 pm

Whiuu, I'm relieved nobody minds. Thank you for your thank-yous. :D
My english is nowhere near perfect, so there is a risk that I might translate stuff wrong, and I would hate it if because of me there were false information out there. I was hoping that someone else would clear up some things here, but since no-one did, I did it. :)

Like I said, that was just a really short and simplified version of what happened. There are some more details in the book, like what it was like in band practices when people were shouting and crying and stuff like that.

But the bottom line is, that the reason for kicking Enary out was the personal chemistry. They just couldn't get along. The book says that it was really hard for Mr. Lordi to try to explain to Enary why she had to leave, since it wasn't like she did something wrong or anything like that. But that it was her personality, and since one can't change one's personality, there were no other options, but to let her go.

The difficulties had been going on for years. Soon after Kita had joined the band, he thought that it would be best for the band to kick Enary out. And then after the Get Heavy-album, Kalma started too to say to Mr. Lordi, that maybe they shouldn't do anymore albums with her. So the argument between Amen and Enary was the last straw.

I wouldn't have even brought the porn thing up, but since Joni mentioned it, I had to explain it. :)
Yeah, the "Sex and the City" is just a harmless comedy of single women living single women's life in New York. It just happens to have some sex in it, so if one doesn't like seeing stuff like that on TV, then one wouldn't like to watch that show either.
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Postby Isa » Fri Mar 16, 2007 6:27 pm

A big thanks for the explain it's nice for all the fan who can't read the biography
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Postby Spiria » Fri Mar 16, 2007 7:42 pm

Poor Enary. :( Anyway,I won't fire a friend of mine only because of one hit or something like that.The friends are to support and to love the other person no matter of his bad characteristics...don't get me wrong,but this with the hit sounds funny.I have made so many stupid things in my life so If Mr.Lordi was around I can't imagine where would he put me... :lol: I feel for her anyway.It's probably very painful to be fired from Lordi.*hugs her*
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Postby S92 » Fri Mar 16, 2007 8:12 pm

Thanks for the translation Mena. I've left a comment on a certain band's MySpace, asking if Enary would check the Monsterboard. We'll just have to wait and see though.

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Postby top hat t-bird » Sat Mar 17, 2007 10:19 am

If Sex and the City is a comedy then so what? If Enary still found it offensive/pornographic then it's still disrespectful to have it playing when one really has no choice but to see it i.e. on a bloody bus.

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Just a thought - if Enary does come here then she's gonna see all this. Nice.
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Postby Fallen One » Sun Mar 18, 2007 5:49 pm

At least Miss Enary will know we still talk about her, care about her and wanted to know what happened that led to her having to leave the band. I don't think there's anything wrong with that.

Besides, she'll always be my number one!

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Postby Mena » Mon Mar 19, 2007 12:14 am

top hat t-bird wrote:If Sex and the City is a comedy then so what? If Enary still found it offensive/pornographic then it's still disrespectful to have it playing when one really has no choice but to see it i.e. on a bloody bus.

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I really don't see a point something like this to be discussed here. But since you wanted to make such a big fuss about this, and you have already said what your opinion is, I might just as well go ahead and say what's mine.

Yes, I do see your point there, but I just don't think that it's that big of a deal. I think it was just a matter of taste and preferences. It's not like they were doing it just to tease her. There just happened to be many people on the bus who wanted to watch the show, and one who didn't want to, and so they watched it. It's not like they tied her down on a seat and forced her eyes to be open and forced her to watch it. I think a grown woman can take care of herself, and protect and stop herself from seeing stuff on TV that she doesn't want to see, while letting other people see it. Surely she was able to pick a spot in the bus where she didn't have to see it, or turn her back on the screen, or put on some earplugs or listen to music or read or whatever. So I don't think it's necessary to claim that she had "no choice but to see it".

In life in general, one can't always get what one wants, and things don't always go the way one wants them to go. Every now and then people have to make compromises and sacrifices, (especially when there are a bunch of people in a bus on a tour), and sometimes shit happens and life sucks. In a situation like this, when there are many people involved, it would also be disrespectful and very selfish for anyone to be assuming that things should be done the way that best suits for that one person. So it's only natural that in this kind of situation the majority got to choose what to do.

Then it would be a different thing, if they really were then watching real porn in the upstairs of the bus too, but in this case all they did was watch a show that is very popular and liked all over the world. And besides, it's not like there is anything weird in that show, since sex and nudity are just natural parts of life. Maybe it's just me, but I just don't understand why it's necessary to fuss over something like this that happened ages ago and is actually none of our fucking business. This started out from just something that is casually said in the book, and which I was stupid enough to translate here.

It's too bad that Enary felt uncomfortable, but I really don't think it's necessary to be saying that someone was being disrespectful to her in that situation. But that's just my opinion, and we are all allowed to have one of our very own of those.

Btw, there is no need for anyone to be now thinking that I'm being disrespectful to Enary. That is not the case, in fact just out of respect for her, I didn't translate here everything there was about her in the book. (Out of respect for her and for all the members, I didn't think it was necessary to be spreading every single detail here.)

So let's stop this nonsense and let's get back on topic. Surely if Enary does come here, she would much rather be reading some nice things than this ridiculous discussion about some insignificant stuff, like about whether or not they should have been watching "Sex and the City" in a tourbus.
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Postby Shamsie » Mon Mar 19, 2007 3:10 am

deathdollsami wrote:Image


oh my gosh!! love this picture...its soo pretty!!
i love you enary!!

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Postby Dezalene » Mon Mar 19, 2007 3:47 am

ShamsieLuvsErna wrote:
deathdollsami wrote:Image


oh my gosh!! love this picture...its soo pretty!!


Yes, she does look quite lovely in this pic, but then again, Enary looks lovely in almost all the pics I've seen her in. :D (The ones where the view of her face is not blocked by her hair, at least, but then again, some of those can be lovely as well!)
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Postby Bloodfang » Mon Mar 19, 2007 2:00 pm

ShamsieLuvsErna wrote:
deathdollsami wrote:Image


oh my gosh!! love this picture...its soo pretty!!
this pic i soooooooo lovely... *receives a slap from his girlfiend*
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